Ask The Question

When you purchase a gym membership, something magical happens. You’re allowed into a world of wonders. Machines, mirrors, lights, TVs, pools, therapists, towels, no toddlers, and a general sense of happy people. I don’t blame you for feeling like you’re in an amusement park, minus the toddlers. 

You purchase matching shoes, socks, shorts, and  tops—your hair tie matches. You step onto one of the machines, and a motor hums underneath you. With a violent pull, the belt flings you toward the end of the machine and launches you through the air into a pile of dirty towels. As someone helps you up, they mumble some nonsense that you need to try, “Like, running,” so you don’t fall off the treadmill.  

Writer’s conferences are like gym memberships. Sure, you can expect to be entertained because writers have the best jokes. However, no one will force you to get anything out of the speaker’s message. Much like when you go to the gym, no one will force you to get on the equipment and use the machines. You’ve got to put in the work.  

Usually, I would send you to Idahope’s Fall Gathering with ten essential commandments to follow in order to get the most from the conference. This time, I’ll offer the greatest that encompasses all of them. Do the following, and all will be well. 

I know you’ll listen carefully, cultivate solid connections, and learn all you can. Good. 

You may also not understand something. If you don’t understand it because you’re not smart enough, please take a moment and remember that Mr. Leavell says you are smart enough. You don’t have all the information, yet. It’s your job to find that information. Jot down your question and find someone to ask when you can.  

That tip pretty much sums up all the other commandments, because asking questions helps you get to know people and form relationships. I hope you enjoy the gathering! See you there! 

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